But no can also mean:
- Come back later.
- How hard will you try?
- How much do you want me?
Start approaching women away from your home base. That way you remove one of the fears that after she says no I will have to see her again and relive the whole moment again.
Go to the next town over, even if she says yes you won't have to drive far to pick her up later. Have a reason handy. You prefer this store, theater etc, for the reason you are in her town.
Rejection by a woman isn't failure. It is a step on the ladder to the girl who will say yes.